Resources

Knowledge Is Power

Articles, guides, reading lists, and tools to support your wellness journey whether you're just starting out or going deeper.

Featured

ArticleSexual Wellness

Why Shame-Free Sex Education Matters for Communities of Color

For too long, sexuality education has been delivered in ways that ignore cultural context, reinforce stigma, and leave entire communities out of the conversation. Here's why that has to change.

6 min readRead article

Articles & Guides

ArticleSexual Wellness

Why Shame-Free Sex Education Matters for Communities of Color

For too long, sexuality education has been delivered in ways that ignore cultural context, reinforce stigma, and leave entire communities out of the conversation. Here's why that has to change.

6 min readRead
ArticleMental Health

The Connection Between Trauma and Sexual Health

Trauma doesn't stay in the past — it lives in the body and shapes how we experience intimacy, pleasure, and connection. Understanding this link is the first step toward healing.

8 min readRead
GuideN My Cenergy

Talking About Pleasure Literacy: A Starter Guide

Pleasure is not a luxury — it is a part of whole-person wellness. This guide offers language, frameworks, and starting points for exploring your own relationship with pleasure.

5 min readRead
ArticleProfessional Development

Integrating Sexuality Education into Clinical Practice

Counselors and Social workers are uniquely positioned to address sexual health with clients — but many feel underprepared. This piece explores how to build competency with confidence.

7 min readRead
GuideWellness Education

How to Have the Talk: Age-Appropriate Conversations About Bodies

A practical guide for parents, caregivers, and educators on how to approach conversations about bodies, consent, and sexuality with children at every developmental stage.

10 min readRead
ArticleN My Cenergy

Reclaiming Desire After Trauma

Healing your relationship with desire is possible — and it doesn't require you to have everything figured out first. A reflection on the slow, nonlinear work of reclamation.

6 min readRead
Recommended Reading

Recommended Reading

Books Nikki returns to again and again — for clients, practitioners, and anyone on the path.

Sexual Wellness

Come As You Are

Emily Nagoski

A science-based guide to understanding female sexuality — pleasure, desire, and the role of stress and context.

Trauma & Healing

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk

A foundational text on trauma, the body, and the path toward healing. Essential reading for practitioners and survivors alike.

Cultural Grounding

Sister Outsider

Audre Lorde

Essays and speeches by Audre Lorde on race, gender, sexuality, and the radical act of self-definition. Timeless and transformative.

N My Cenergy

Pleasure Activism

adrienne maree brown

A collection exploring how pleasure — in all its forms — is a site of political and personal liberation.

Trauma & Healing

My Grandmother's Hands

Resmaa Menakem

A somatic approach to healing racialized trauma in the body — for individuals, families, and communities.

Cultural Grounding

The New Jim Crow

Michelle Alexander

A critical examination of mass incarceration and its impact on Black communities — essential context for community wellness work.

Frameworks

Tools & Frameworks

Sexual Wellness

Dual Control Model

A research-backed framework for understanding sexual response — the accelerator and brake system that shapes desire and arousal.

Trauma & Healing

Trauma-Informed Care Principles

The six core principles of trauma-informed care: safety, trustworthiness, peer support, collaboration, empowerment, and cultural humility.

Professional Development

CENERGY Method: Cultural Humility Framework

A lifelong process of self-reflection and learning that centers the experiences and expertise of the communities we serve.

Looking for something specific?

Reach out and we will point you toward the right resources, reading, or programming for where you are right now.

Get in Touch